Have you read my previous blog or listened to my podcast about OUT OF THE BOX THINKING? If you did, how did you respond to it?  Were you thinking, “Yay!  Give me more of this radical thinking!  I’m excited!” or did you say to yourself, “No way!  This is ridiculous! My friends would think I’m nuts if I talked about this stuff.” I invite you to consider what is true for you at your deepest core level and ENJOY giving yourself the gift of BEING YOURSELF.


Let me explain where I’m coming from.  When I sit down to share with you, I really have no control over what comes through me from my True Core Essence.  It just flows.  When I do that, I feel relief, deep peace and harmony throughout my being.  If I were to judge or censor what comes through so I might please others, I would be likely to feel agitated, irritated or even angry.  My body would feel uncomfortable.

How about you?  Can you remember a time when you held back your real feelings or thoughts in order to get others’ approval?  How did you feel inside?  Compare those feelings with a time when you spoke your truth.  Which time gave you a greater sense of ease?  

We are all the True Core Essence of All That Is.  Our pretend selves, our personality/ego, is expressing in the way our core chooses.  What if each of us were to allow the essence of who we are to express fully and completely?  No more “Mom or Dad will be upset” or “Susie won’t like me anymore” if I say what I really feel and believe.

Perhaps if people felt free to express their truth fully instead of trying to please others we would have a world full of much happier people.  Maybe it could be a world without so many shootings, wars, and other hurtful things that are currently happening.



There isn’t really anything that the personality, the pretend self, can control.  Your True Core Essence, your Source Point, your God (whatever your word is) creates your life.  Your personality or pretend self likes to think it has some control, but it is just the façade for your Core and is truly without any control.

What if this were true?  What if you let go of the idea that you have some control over what happens and you simply observe your life.  What if you do not judge anything as right or wrong.  Rather, just BE with what is.

I know that for many people, opening to these kinds of thoughts and this way of being puts them in a big freefall.  Our personalities can be very resistant to recognizing they have no control.  It’s ok to gradually move into this. A starting point is to ask yourself, “Is this true for me?”

Being open to your inner knowing and expressing honestly from your True Core Essence are ways to move into a new adventurous place in your life.  Letting go of resistance can also allow for a more joyful and vibrant life.

I did an audio recording on my podcast, “Waking Up with Esateys” about having the FREEDOM TO BE YOURSELF.  Please go to link to listen to the full episode.

Feel free to connect with me below.  I welcome your comments and questions.  

Until next time.

Feel a Hug,